Monday, December 5, 2011

reading and learning

A dominant man wrote recently to ask for advice. He feels he is still learning and asked if I could recommend further sources of information. There are some books listed on the sidebar that have been recommended by readers.

If anyone has any further recommendations for books or websites please let me know in a comment here or an email and I will add them to the sidebar list.


- P


  1. I don't have anything to add to your very good list but would suggest that perhaps the first two books to read would be The Loving Dominant and Different Loving. They are both classics and provide a wonderfully grounded and humane perspective on D/s and BDSM.

  2. Thanks David. I agree that is a very good suggestion.

  3. I've read The Loving Dominant and it was a fantastic book.

    I would like to share this website it was one of the first sites I ever found when I started looking into the lifestyle. While it seems to no longer be updated any more the content there is still pertinent.

  4. We found these sites quite interesting during our early explorations. I still enjoy browsing back through them at times.

  5. Thanks lil. Those links look interesting and informative - I will add them to the sidebar. I am also adding the BDSM Dictionary from Informed Consent.


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