I have just heard from him again. He writes,
PygarMy thoughts? Well I think Graham has worked it out for himself when he writes,
Thought I would provide an update and could use yours and your readers thoughts
My girl still feeling terrible guilt over our relationship. She loves me deeply, but feels she is being dishonest, deceitful and selfish in regards to her husband and children who are not aware of our relationship.
Since we live close enough, I have wanted to be with her; but her fear of being discovered continues to hold her back and actually limits what we can do if and when we get together.
I am very physical, and it's that aspect that causes her the most problem. She has told me if we eliminated the physical aspect (in real time) she can deal with her feelings in good conscience.
That just doesn't work for me. I want and need a complete relationship which includes some physicality.
We care deeply for each other, love each other unlike any others. I hate to see the stress and trauma she feels from her guilt, deceit, dishonest.
She knows she can't get from her husband what I give her, but she can't handle the guilt the relationship brings.
I love and want this girl very much, she is my one.....but I'm thinking if I truly act in her best interests, if I care, I should offer or in fact let her go....release her.
We have been thru so much....but this is impacting her...and I hate to be the cause of her stress.
Your thoughts?
I love and want this girl very much, she is my one.....but I'm thinking if I truly act in her best interests, if I care, I should offer or in fact let her go....release her.So yes, if he truly does want to "act in her best interests, if I care," then should he "offer or in fact let her go....release her."
We have been thru so much....but this is impacting her...and I hate to be the cause of her stress.
So I wonder what readers think. Is this the inevitable end? Should Graham release her?
