Ana raised some questions about self-harm in comments to posts on A Kind Dom. I have written a post in reply and asking for the views or readers here. I hope readers of Uncle Agony might be interested.
So ...
... can a D/s relationship help meet a desire to self harm but in a more constructive way?
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A place to air serious questions and problems related to domination and submission - and to offer help and support
The Purpose of This Blog
Through writing my blog Pygar - A Kind Dom I receive a certain amount of mail. Some of this mail is asking for my advice and support - occasionally about some serious and difficult subjects. I always try to reply as helpfully as I can but am aware that my knowledge and wisdom is limited.
The purpose of this blog is to air some of these requests for advice publicly - but anonymously. Readers are invited to contribute their advice through the comments. Please ensure that comments are intended kindly and supportively. If I feel that any advice does not meet that requirement I will delete it.
If anybody has a question or problem that they would like airing here - then please email me.
The purpose of this blog is to air some of these requests for advice publicly - but anonymously. Readers are invited to contribute their advice through the comments. Please ensure that comments are intended kindly and supportively. If I feel that any advice does not meet that requirement I will delete it.
If anybody has a question or problem that they would like airing here - then please email me.
Helpful Books
These books have been recommended by readers of this blog. If you have others to suggest please email me.
The Loving Dominant, by John Warren
SM 101, by Jay Wiseman
Consensual Sadomasochism, by William A Henkin Ph.D and Sybil Holiday
The New Topping Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
The Master's Manual, by Jack Rinella.
Partners in Power: Living In Kinky Relationships, by Jack Rinella
Different Loving:The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission, by Gloria Brame, William D. Brame and Jon Jacobs
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism, by Philip Miller, Molly Devon
The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities, by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt
The Surrendered Wife, by Laura Doyle
The Submissive Guide: Recommended Reading for New Submissives.
Vivian's ebooks:
How to Get the Spanking You Want: The Complete Guide to Asking for It, Getting It & Making It Better
and
How to Give a Spanking: Advice from the Receiving End
The Loving Dominant, by John Warren
SM 101, by Jay Wiseman
Consensual Sadomasochism, by William A Henkin Ph.D and Sybil Holiday
The New Topping Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy
The Master's Manual, by Jack Rinella.
Partners in Power: Living In Kinky Relationships, by Jack Rinella
Different Loving:The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission, by Gloria Brame, William D. Brame and Jon Jacobs
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism, by Philip Miller, Molly Devon
The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities, by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt
The Surrendered Wife, by Laura Doyle
The Submissive Guide: Recommended Reading for New Submissives.
Vivian's ebooks:
How to Get the Spanking You Want: The Complete Guide to Asking for It, Getting It & Making It Better
and
How to Give a Spanking: Advice from the Receiving End
Informative Websites
The following wesites have been recommended by readers of this blog. If you would like to suggest some more please email me.
The Submissive Guide
Beauty in Darkness: The History of BDSM
The Disciplined Feminist
Taken In Hand
Steel Door Scrolls
Castle Realm
Informed Consent BDSM Dictionary
The Submissive Guide
Beauty in Darkness: The History of BDSM
The Disciplined Feminist
Taken In Hand
Steel Door Scrolls
Castle Realm
Informed Consent BDSM Dictionary
Blogging friends who link here
Other blogs where I have an interest
Followers
About Me
- Pygar
- A Dom who feels he doesn't fit into the mould of "Dom-ness" trying to explore his own nature and feelings and some thoughts about D/s. Pygar was not a Dom. He was an angel. He was also blind. But he did get to shag Jane Fonda!
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