Through writing my blog Pygar - A Kind Dom I receive a certain amount of mail. Some of this mail is asking for my advice and support - occasionally about some serious and difficult subjects. I always try to reply as helpfully as I can but am aware that my knowledge and wisdom is limited.
The purpose of this blog is to air some of these requests for advice publicly - but anonymously. Readers are invited to contribute their advice through the comments. Please ensure that comments are intended kindly and supportively. If I feel that any advice does not meet that requirement I will delete it.
If anybody has a question or problem that they would like airing here - then please email me.
Helpful Books
These books have been recommended by readers of this blog. If you have others to suggest please email me.
The Loving Dominant, by John Warren SM 101, by Jay Wiseman Consensual Sadomasochism, by William A Henkin Ph.D and Sybil Holiday The New Topping Book, by Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy The Master's Manual, by Jack Rinella. Partners in Power: Living In Kinky Relationships, by Jack Rinella Different Loving:The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission, by Gloria Brame, William D. Brame and Jon Jacobs Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism, by Philip Miller, Molly Devon The Ethical Slut: A Guide to Infinite Sexual Possibilities, by Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt The Surrendered Wife, by Laura Doyle
A Dom who feels he doesn't fit into the mould of "Dom-ness" trying to explore his own nature and feelings and some thoughts about D/s.
Pygar was not a Dom. He was an angel. He was also blind. But he did get to shag Jane Fonda!