tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8022929989646932055.post2056238761337879444..comments2023-10-23T22:26:59.110+01:00Comments on Uncle Agony: how to make a punishment more severe or effectivePygarhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8022929989646932055.post-13454017600331583282020-12-16T12:18:56.935+00:002020-12-16T12:18:56.935+00:00Thank you Anonymous. Indeed I can imagine that wou...Thank you Anonymous. Indeed I can imagine that would definitely make it severe!<br /><br />PPygarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8022929989646932055.post-53526483301762020772020-12-16T12:17:54.566+00:002020-12-16T12:17:54.566+00:00Thank you Anonymous for your thughts on this and w...Thank you Anonymous for your thughts on this and what works for you. I am sorry that I missed your comment initially.<br /><br />PxxPygarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8022929989646932055.post-17136072558124788942020-12-15T23:32:49.923+00:002020-12-15T23:32:49.923+00:00Before the spanking rub layers and layers of tripp...Before the spanking rub layers and layers of tripple moisturizing lotion. Than just tap and tap the implement while the anticipation builds, not knowing when the first whack is going to be and knowing it will start any second.<br /><br />Use thinner stingy implements, try using the flat part of the handle of a bamboo backscatter.<br /><br />Eliminate any kind of warm up, start the spanking with shock and awe beginning. Instantaneously fast and furious, absolutely no warm up. Go from zero to rapid fire as instantly as possible.<br /><br />Go nonstop for a really long time and cover entire backside from the top of the cheeks to half way down the back of the thighs. Dont stop when you she starts crying that's when it starts continue the spanking for a real long time while she sobbing, bawling and beyond her ability to make words.<br /><br />Believe me that make it more memorable, more painful and more severe. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8022929989646932055.post-17948305617969418002017-11-27T17:30:54.992+00:002017-11-27T17:30:54.992+00:00I can take a very severe spanking, and I absolutel...I can take a very severe spanking, and I absolutely agree with what was said about a slow build-up, hand spanking first, light instruments rather than thuddy ones, and breaks in the spanking to let the nerves recover. I've also found that a longer anticipation period before the actual spanking begins adds to the ability to take it. My mind seems to be able to compose itself and handle more pain when my spanker doesn't rush into it. It also seems to make a difference if I don't know how long it will last. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8022929989646932055.post-28469471534641363642017-11-12T17:22:56.914+00:002017-11-12T17:22:56.914+00:00Thank you Anonymous-2 for your further suggestions...Thank you Anonymous-2 for your further suggestions on this topic from your personal experience. They sound very helpful.<br /><br />P xxPygarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8022929989646932055.post-54504292906989346442017-11-12T17:18:52.390+00:002017-11-12T17:18:52.390+00:00Ooops - I missed the comment from Anonymous-1 abou...Ooops - I missed the comment from Anonymous-1 about self spanking. Sorry about that.<br /><br />Further apologies as I have no knowledge or experience of self spanking. Any readers out there with thoughts about this?<br /><br />P <br />Pygarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8022929989646932055.post-26886698231425398612017-11-11T18:04:16.051+00:002017-11-11T18:04:16.051+00:00I agree with the comments about a slow build-up an...I agree with the comments about a slow build-up and use of lighter, stingier instruments rather than heavy, thuddy ones. When I am spanked I appreciate breaks and rubbing because they make the session last lots longer. A hand warm-up is important, as is mixing hand spanking whenever an instrument is used. The hand forms to the butt skin differently and awakens different nerve endings. Also, mixing in a tawse can help. I prefer to be immobilized when I am spanked because it increases the sense of impact. If I can move, a lot of the energy goes into moving me, rather into my butt. Being bent over a table or a piece of furniture works quite well.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8022929989646932055.post-32352396974613294382017-03-14T05:40:49.563+00:002017-03-14T05:40:49.563+00:00Do you know anything about self spanking? And how ...Do you know anything about self spanking? And how to make it harder?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8022929989646932055.post-3114312722657118742014-03-13T11:29:05.069+00:002014-03-13T11:29:05.069+00:00Yes Betsy T - I think when it comes to punishment ...Yes Betsy T - I think when it comes to punishment the psychological element can be the most effective.<br /><br />Thanks<br /><br />P xxPygarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8022929989646932055.post-42905751116310031402014-03-13T03:02:50.462+00:002014-03-13T03:02:50.462+00:00For me, punishment is always worse when there is a...For me, punishment is always worse when there is a psychological element involved. My worse punishments always had a physical and mental component, like guilt or being disappointed in myself. It never fails to leave me crying liking a baby and very, very sorry!Betsy Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07450472130337597263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8022929989646932055.post-9364569921803334432014-01-27T22:10:10.927+00:002014-01-27T22:10:10.927+00:00That is some very high praise, thank you Pygar. I ...That is some very high praise, thank you Pygar. I just want to help, and experience is the best teacher! ;Dignotushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16351574980957654704noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8022929989646932055.post-60793920306633926772014-01-24T18:18:25.698+00:002014-01-24T18:18:25.698+00:00Thank you very, very much Missus Whore for your ex...Thank you very, very much Missus Whore for your excellent and comprehensive advice. You are clearly an expert in this area - most likely from personal experience. Thank you for sharing with us.<br /><br />P xxPygarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11913556740445196578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8022929989646932055.post-74109890502164071742014-01-24T17:09:53.467+00:002014-01-24T17:09:53.467+00:00Some advice for punishment... I hope it helps. (I ...Some advice for punishment... I hope it helps. (I totally meant to do this yesterday and forgot. apologies.)<br /><br />Beating me is not an effective punishment. I like it far too much. If I were spanked for my infractions it would just encourage me to misbehave.<br /><br />First is warming up slower, as Pygar suggested. Start with a hand rather than a tool. Resting between tools, and slowly graduating up to heavier implements. Flat, lightweight, wide things will deliver a mighty slap and cover a great deal of surface area. Heavier things will thud, again as Pygar said. Slender things are whippy, but can (and will) break skin.<br /><br />Sometimes, when my Daddy has been at my backside for an extended amount of time, he will put aloe on my skin during a break. It is a thick gel, and he takes his time rubbing it in. This stings. He has excellent timing and starts back up again before it's completely dry. It's like.. Thirty more seconds and I'd be totally dry. Sometimes during breaks he will lick, kiss, and bite gently at me. This is incredibly awesomely erotic and I enjoy it. The biting hurts, a lot. The licking, is again, to leave my flesh damp for when he starts up again. Your husband can skip the kissing part and just bite, and spread some saliva about before starting up again. This might be too intimate for what you seek however. Your husband can try moving where he spanks throughout the beating. The lower back should never, ever be hit. Dangerous. Can do internal damage. However, the backs of your thighs, the insides of your thighs, and your labia are all incredibly sensitive areas and can take a serious beating, and be accessed while in a prone position common to spanking. Alternatively the tops of your thighs and your mons, if changing positions is an acceptable option in the routine.<br /><br />The best suggestion I can think of is as follows.<br /><br />Closure might be achieved with additions to the punishment routine that do not involve spanking at all. Once your rump has gone numb, inform your husband. At this point he can make many choices for the punishment to continue. You can kneel before him, with no cushion, up off your heels, hands behind your head. If you are nude this puts you on display as well as becomes uncomfortable after a time and makes you vulnerable. This is a good time to deliver a lecture. He can require your spankings be delivered in a posture that is difficult to maintain without concentration. I spend most of mine over Daddy's lap balanced on my toes. It is up to me to maintain my balance, and if I fall out of his lap, that's my problem. Instead of over his lap or prone over furniture, he can deliver your spankings with you on your feet, bent at the waist, braced either on your knees or the floor. I suggest starting with a chair before trying anything else though. Balance is an issue and you don't want a broken nose. Just brace your hands on the chair with your elbows pointed outwards. Do not lock your knees, or elbows. The lower the item you are bracing with the more difficult it is. Your feet should be shoulder's width apart. Added difficulty with the aid of a piece of furniture to brace with is standing on tip toe.<br /><br />The goal of your punishment session is contrition. If a simple routine of spanking is not working because your nerves are shutting down and going into shock faster than you can reach your emotional goal, you need to do one of two or both of these things. Slow the nerves going into shock down by slowing down the intensity of the pain (this may not be possible, that is no fault, there is no blame. It just is.) and find alternative methods of punishment so you attain the emotional release you are seeking. Other methods of physical discomfort. Meaningless, tedious tasks that leave your mind free to contemplate your transgressions, followed by a lecture and a spanking. Physical pain is not your only option. It is the quickest, simplest option. But it is not the only one. You don't necessarily need to move to heavier implements. Doing so might defeat your purpose.ignotushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16351574980957654704noreply@blogger.com